Should my Honey dye her hair?

My honey is in her mid 50's. She is about 50-50 brown and gray hair. Recently she asked me if she should dye her hair all brown. I told her I loved her for who she is not for the color of her hair and it's up to her. But now I wonder was she asking me for permission to do it. She doesn't need my permission but maybe she wanted my blessing to do it. A.-Do you think she's asking for permission. B.-Wopuld you tell her to dye it or not? I need your feedback.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

awww its so sweet that u call her u honey, n yes i do think she was askin ur permission or maybe just ur opininon, n i think u should let her do it if she really wants to maybe she's just lookin for a change n who no's maybe you'll reallyy like her new look alot!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

dying ur hair is bad cuz it kills it. hair problems n stuff.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

She thinks of you as her best friend. She wants your approval. She is probably scared to dye it and would like a second opinion. She wants to whoo you all over again. There could be many reasons why she asked you.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

let her do it. i bet she will look hot and you guys can screw all night long. actually have her do an entire make over (hair, nails, makeup) and go out on the town for no reason at all. then come home and screw all night long!!!! Have fun!!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

i think shes just asking for your advice, not really your permission, and let her dye her hair if that will gonna make her feel good about herself

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Yes if that makes u and her happy than yes

Should my Honey dye her hair?

If it makes her feel better about her self image then sure why not? Id totally stay with the brown color and not lighten it or go darker. But try to have it match her natural color as much as possible that way it looks all natiural. I know id want to do it when I start getting grey just because it would make me feel better!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

tell her to die it

she want ur approval not permission

itll give her more self esteem most likely so tell her to go for it

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Tell her that Ali told you that as you get older your skin changes....don't go as dark with her hair as it was before it started turning grey....that is the most common problem with dying your hair....it looks strange and unnatural that way. Go with her to the store, Loreal makes a very forgiving hair dye....Go with a dark blond...have fun with it. She will feel pretty if she does this....50 isn't at all old, however our bodies change and do things like get grey hair....most women dye their hair because it makes them feel pretty again....and there is nothing wrong with that.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I think she was wanting your (I don't want to say permission) opinion, your consent. I think she wanted to hear what you would think about it.

Maybe it will make her feel better about herself. I think it's awesome you told her you like her just the way she is.

Kudos to you!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

yes! my mom is bout the same age and she looks wonderful!!! she looks neater and more presentable. you will love her more when she does. change is good!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

One of the hardest things to adjust to is the stark difference when someone shows up with all brown hair when they've been "salt %26amp; pepper" as long as folks can remember.

Tell her to highlight her hair with the brown and then gradually increase the highlighting until she removes the desired amount of gray over time.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I think you should tell her that "whatever makes her happy will make you happy" that way she's happy your happy problem solved.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

She may be feeling insecure, in which case you gave her the right answer.

I think, as a woman, that she may in part have been asking for your blessing. But I would not tell her to do it. Leave things as they are, and if she brings it up again, tell her if it would cheer her up or make her feel more confident than you support her.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Maybe she was just asking you for your opinion, not necessarily your permission. Just mention to her that if she wants to do it, you're okay with it. If you don't care about the color of her hair, then it should be "ok" right?

If it bothered me at all that I was going gray so fast (and I am, as I am 36, and already about 30% gray!)...and coloring it made me feel a little better or confident (and it does), then I'd do it.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I think she was just asking your opinion not asking for permission. You gave the perfect answer. If she is unsure, she can always try semi-permanent color which will wash out in a few weeks. If she likes it then she can always do it again with permanent color which will last longer, but still need to be maintained as her roots grow out.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I'm 46 and have been dyeing my roots for about 4 years....if I didn't, I'd be half gray by now. It makes me feel and look younger and more confident.

Tell her you love her no matter what, but you'd love to take her out to some fancy salon and get her hair dyed any color she likes.....and tell her you just don't want her to be mad when you're all over her that night. Make it light and sexy and positive. She's asking because she wants to do it.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Maybe she was just feeling a little unattractive and thought she needed it, but wanted your opinion.

For A No I don't think she was asking for permission

For B the answer you gave was perfect!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Tell her that her natural beauty is something that you cherish, especially as it changes ( like fine wine she gets better with age). But her happiness is even more important to you than her outer beauty. So if brown akes her happy...

Have her try on wigs for you at a wig shop so she can see your responses without commitment.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

She is seeking approval. It also maybe one of those moments where she'll ask "Do you really love me like I am or should I change for you?"

Turn it around on her and ask her if you should dye your hair. By the way, I help my wife do her hair all the time. Been doing it since I was a child with my mother. It's only color, it won't change how you feel about her.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I think she's just asking for your advice, not your permission. Tell her to go for it, if she's looking for a change, but you love her and think she looks great, no matter what color her hair is.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Yeah she's scared to do it and it look like crap and if you don't tell her to do it she can't blame you, WATCH IT IT'S A TRAP...............

Should my Honey dye her hair?

I am 52, and I have been coloring my hair since I was 19.

These days it is a non-issue. She should do whatever she wants, but there is NOTHING that will make someone look or feel younger (and better) than a good dye job.

Should my Honey dye her hair?

She is probably feeling old because of the gray, women need change and want to be the young lover she was when she met you. Encourage it by telling her that after you thought about it you decided that she wanted your support in the idea, if she wants a change you are all for it, One thing I do is use semi permanet hair color, that way it washes out slowly and you don't have streaks when the new hair grows out. Surprise her take her down and call it a make over and out for a new outfit and dinner. She'll love it. Romance her with the idea, She'll love you for it even more. Make it a game of secrecy or as a couple makeover, newness is always fun and exciting and makes you feel young again. Sue

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Clarify with her whether she was asking your permission, and let her know for future reference that she doesn't need it to dye her own hair! Tell her you're glad she's seeking your opinion for something she doesn't need to, and that as much as you like her hair the way it is, you want her to be happy, and that if changing her hair color will make her happy, then you're all for it!

Should my Honey dye her hair?

Make the carpet match the curtains. Shave her bald.